So you've taken the time to scroll down, you must be interested in why this site exists and what I'm aiming for.  In my teens I was shy, a little insecure and had, what I considered to be, the misfortune of being born ginger. In my teens I continued to carry this belief as I found myself the target of name calling etc, based mostly around my hair colour. I was not a happy confident teenager, and allowed my experiences to shape me into my 20s, but not in a good way. My 30s have  been a blessing, seeing the world differently, learning about myself, and how to heal myself as best I can. But I have also learnt about the world around me. I saw women on social media who had their lives together, who had amazing homes and families, ever unhappy, always healthy and wanted to know more.

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              I have discovered that these women of mystery, or the over achieving women who make the rest of us feel inadequate, are just the same as the rest of us. They have insecurities, money issues, they say the wrong thing or wake up feeling frumpy. The difference between them and the rest of us? They just grab every opportunity that comes their way, with both hands, so that's what I'm going to try to do. Currently I am studying life coaching, I studied psychology, wellness, mental health science and I hope to qualify in counselling in future.